We can’t lie—traditionally, the idea of Valentine’s Day makes us internally cringe. Count us all in for regular (and consistent) displays of affection, acts of service, and demonstrations of love, but there’s something about the most romantically loaded holiday of the year that suddenly makes us pull a blank when selecting the right type of gift.
And while we’re all for flowers, chocolates, and dinner dates, if you’re looking for a non-lame gift that will upgrade your lovers-life beyond the 14th of Feb, you’ve come to the right place. Whether you want to treat your favourite person to something special, source a practical gift they’ll use on the reg, or you’re all about those *ahem* bedside table treasures, keep reading below for the Valentine’s Day gift ideas that are sure to impress.
Maison Balzac Martini Glass
Price: $73.91
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Delicately handmade, this elegant martini glass holds an everlasting glass olive in its heart—this way, you'll never run out! Shop here
Cou Cou Pointelle-Knit Organic Cotton Shorts
Price: $113
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Perfect for lazy Sundays these pointelle knit organic cotton shorts are soft and comfortable and can be paired with the matching camisole and cosy socks. Shop here
Typo Daily Mug
Price: $11.99
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An ideal gift for lovers of the Friend’s series, this iconic mug is sure to spark some break debate. Shop here
Oura Ring
Price: From $488
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The only piece of jewellery that can track over 20 biometric signals, straight from your finger. Shop here
Dame Massage Oil
Price: $51.69
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Created for maximum glide, this moisturising formula doubles as an intimate oil, meaning you can move effortlessly from massage to more. Shop here
We're Not Really Strangers Self Love Card Game
Price: $29.51
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This Self Love Edition of the We’re Not Really Strangers viral card game digs even deeper with over 150 new questions and three carefully crafted levels of questions and wildcards. Shop here
Anissa Kermiche Bottom Of My Heart Ceramic Vase
Price: $199.45
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Celebrate love and the female form with this curvaceous Anissa Kermiche silhouette that’s been artfully crafted from black glazed ceramic. Shop here
Anew Reusable Water Bottle
Price: $10
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Dial up the sustainability with this NZ made plant-based water bottle that's durable, lightweight and endlessly reusable. Extra points for the cute Pride limited-edition bottle designed by New Zealand artist Oliver Cain. Shop here
Rubi Press On Nails
Price: $12.99
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Secure the perfect Valentine's Day look with these ultra adorable love-heart-inspired press-on nails. Shop here
Dyson Supersonic Fuchsia
Price: $699
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Name a better upgrade than trading in their old hairdryer for a Dyson supersonic. Shop here
Glassons Novelty Ankle Sock
Price: $7.99
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These dumpling-inspired novelty socks are sure to hit the mark if you're looking for something small and sweet. Shop here
LBDO Essensual Lube
Price: $33
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Update your bedside with this natural aloe and water-based personal lubricant that will never need to be hidden away in a drawer. Shop here
The StretchPad
Price: $749
Give the gift of full-body relaxation with the space-saving StretchPad. The heated stretching massager has seven fully automated stretching and massage routines. Bliss. Shop here.
Go-To Bright Size Glow-To Minis
Price: $32.15
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This travel-sized skincare duo will make the perfect addition to any romantic weekend getaway. Shop here
Loewe Home Scents Solid Soap
Price: $123
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Inspired by Ancient Greek and Roman bathing rituals, this Tomato Leaves soap will leave you feeling energised and uplifted. Shop here
Jonny Weekender Condoms 6 Pack
Price: $10.45
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Be ready for more good times with the Jonny Weekender pack, which features six vegan condoms plus a disposal bag for each of them. Shop here
Calvin Klein Cotton Stretch Trunks 3-Pack
Price: $114.94
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Upgrade their underwear drawer with this soft and stretchy cotton set from Calvin Klein. Shop here
Chouchou Bralette & Bikini Brief Set
Price: $86
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This pretty and playful lingerie set is crafted from organic cotton for a super soft and comfortable feel. Shop here
Dame Pom
Price: $195.44
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This clever vibrator bends to fit the movement of the body, allowing it to nestle within the palm of your hand for easy use. Shop here
Typo Snoopy Pen Holder
Price: $17.99
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Brighten up their workstation with this Snoopy-themed edition that’s perfect for corralling pens, makeup brushes, or as a mini pot plant. Shop here
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